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119: How NOT To Tell Your Partner You Have Herpes With Alexandra Harbushka
Life With Herpes
Hi there. So we’ve talked a ton about how to tell your partner or when to tell your partner and what to say when you tell your partner. It’s all scary and trust me I totally get it. Society has made us look like we’re bad people for having herpes and we’ve also been taught to not talk about sex. So why would talking about herpes be normal or easy?
So here are some ways to NOT tell your partner you have herpes.
A really bad time is…
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120: Alexandra Harbushka's Husbands Thoughts On Her Having Herpes
Hi there! On today’s episode my husband, Bill, is joining us. Yay! There’s been a ton of Secret Society members who’ve been asking about Bill and wanting to know what his true thoughts were when it came to be with me, us having sex and the risks of transmitting herpes.
Originally when I was diagnosed I truly believed that nobody would love me because of this virus. Sound familiar? I stayed in a relationship far too long because I didn’t have the self-confi…
123: Importance Of Putting Your Ego Aside And Telling Your Partner About Herpes With Alexandra Harbushka
Life With Herpes
The ego is a really strong influence on our lives. The ego has some really good quality and of course, it can have some bad qualities.
The ego has many definitions and to some, it can be described as the little devil that sits on your shoulder. But the ego is basically a little voice inside you that wants to feel special and wants to prove it’s self. At the same time, the ego could be seen as it’s lacking confidence so it needs to be bois…
120: Reason's To Date Even With Herpes With Alexandra Harbushka
Life With Herpes
I have to imagine that dating has been around since the first humas roamed this earth. Finding love, compaionship, friendship and the desire to reproduce is just in our DNA. And from my opinion it’s in pretty much every species DNA. Now, don’t quote me on that, I’m in no way a National Geographic or Animal Planet expert. But what I’m saying is we are born to desire companionship and reproduce. If we didn’t have that then our specise would b…
4 Essential Oils To Heal Your Herpes Outbreak with Alexandra Harbushka
Essential Oils Can Help Your Herpes Outbreaks
Ok, so I love essential oils. When I was first introduced to them I was really skeptical about their holistic healing properties but I was always a huge fan of using them as aromatherapy. Essential oils have become a huge thing over the last couple of years so most likely you have some type of oil laying around your house. Well, as I’m sure you guessed it there are some oils that are really helpful and beneficial when it comes to a herpes outbreak.…