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The Role of Antiviral Medications in Managing Herpes

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How Antiviral Treatments Can Help Control Outbreaks

Antiviral medications play a crucial role in managing herpes, helping to reduce the frequency and severity of outbreaks and lower the risk of transmission. Understanding how these medications work and how to use them effectively can significantly improve your quality of life. In this post, we'll explore the role of antiviral medications in managing herpes and provide tips for their effective use.

Antiviral medications such as acyclovir, valac…

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Timeless Dating Advice: Wisdom from Every Season of Life

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We're back—or more like I’m back—writing weekly blog posts! If you’ve been following along, you know I had my second baby in November, so it’s taken me a little time to find my rhythm again. Last night, I managed to snag a solid three-hour sleep chunk and hit a total of seven hours—so, I’m feeling surprisingly chipper today! Let’s dive into this week’s topic, which was inspired by one of our incredible support group calls.

If you’ve been here a while, you know how much I love our Monday cal…

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Herpes Myths and Facts: Dispelling Common Misconceptions

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Separating Fact from Fiction About Herpes

Herpes is a common condition, but it’s surrounded by numerous myths and misconceptions. These false beliefs can create unnecessary fear, stigma, and misunderstanding. In this post, we’ll debunk some of the most common myths about herpes and provide accurate, fact-based information to help you understand the condition better.

One prevalent myth is that only promiscuous people get herpes. This is simply not true. Herpes can affect anyone, regardless of t…

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The Hidden Cost of Hatred: How Letting Go of Anger Toward Your Gifter Can Set You Free

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Here’s a great video on hate. I’ve talked about this before on our calls and at our retreat. When we harbor ill will toward someone (our "gifter"), it doesn’t impact him or her nearly as much as it impacts you. You see, our ego—or subconscious—doesn’t differentiate between thinking ill will toward someone else and thinking it about ourselves. Ultimately, when you send negative energy toward another person, your subconscious interprets it as directed inward.

For those of…

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Managing Herpes During the Holiday Season: Tips for Staying Outbreak-Free

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Practical Strategies for Enjoying the Holidays Without Stressing About Herpes



The holiday season is a time of joy, celebration, and sometimes stress. For those living with herpes, managing the condition during this busy time can be challenging. However, with some practical strategies, you can enjoy the holidays without worrying about herpes outbreaks. In this post, we'll explore tips for staying outbreak-free during the holiday season.

One of the biggest triggers for herpes outbreaks…

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Wondering If You’re Experiencing a Herpes Outbreak? Here’s What You Need to Know

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As you all know, I love our weekly support group calls. It warms my heart to meet with people from all over the world, with different upbringings, cultures, and demographics, and to see us unite on one topic. We are all going to get through our diagnosis, and we're going to be able to live our lives with herpes.

When I was diagnosed in 2011, I felt so alone, scared, and lost. I would cry daily, sitting in my sorrow and misery. It was isolating and terrifying. As you all know, there are so m…

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Vaginal Microbiome & Herpes Outbreaks: Interview With Coach Sarah Joy, pt.3

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Navigating life with herpes or any chronic condition that affects your health can feel overwhelming. The journey often begins with feelings of confusion and a flood of questions. But it doesn’t have to remain that way. In this post, we’ll explore the interconnectedness of your immune system, lifestyle, and vaginal health, empowering you to regain control and live confidently.


Coach Sarah Joy, a specialist in vaginal and viral health, sheds light on these issues in her work with individual…

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Boosting Your Immune System Naturally to Manage Herpes

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Natural Remedies and Lifestyle Changes for Better Outbreak Control


Managing herpes effectively involves supporting your immune system to reduce the frequency and severity of outbreaks. Natural remedies and lifestyle changes can play a significant role in boosting your immune system and improving your overall health. In this post, we'll explore various natural ways to enhance your immune system and manage herpes.

A balanced diet is crucial for supporting your immune system. Focus on eating a …

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Herpes and Relationships: Navigating Intimacy and Trust

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Building Strong and Honest Relationships Despite a Herpes Diagnosis

Navigating relationships while living with herpes can be challenging, but it's entirely possible to build strong, loving, and honest connections. Communication, trust, and understanding are key components of maintaining healthy relationships despite a herpes diagnosis. In this post, we'll explore how to navigate intimacy and trust when living with herpes.

Open and honest communication is crucial in any relationship, especially…

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Coping with Herpes Diagnosis: Mental Health and Emotional Well-being

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Strategies for Navigating the Emotional Challenges of Herpes

Receiving a herpes diagnosis can be an emotional experience, often leading to feelings of anxiety, depression, and isolation. It's important to address these emotional challenges and prioritize your mental health. In this post, we'll explore strategies for coping with a herpes diagnosis and maintaining your emotional well-being.

The first step in coping with a herpes diagnosis is to acknowledge your feelings. It's normal to feel a ra…

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