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Exploring the Connection Between Women’s Health and Genital Herpes: A Personal Journey and Community Insights

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This week’s support group calls were deeply impactful, with both familiar faces and new members joining from all over the world. Witnessing everyone’s transformation over time has been heartwarming. We covered some crucial topics, particularly female health and sexually transmitted infections (STIs) like herpes, and I’d love to share some insights from those discussions, along with personal reflections on my own health journey.


My Personal Health Journey: From Infections to Herpes

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Herpes and Self-Care: Building a Routine for Wellness

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Prioritizing Your Health and Well-Being


Living with herpes involves more than just managing physical symptoms; it's also about taking care of your overall well-being. Building a comprehensive self-care routine can help you manage stress, support your immune system, and improve your quality of life. In this post, we'll explore various self-care strategies that can help you live well with herpes.

One of the most important aspects of self-care is stress management. Stress is a common trigger fo…

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Navigating Life With Herpes: Understanding Transmission and Embracing Parenthood

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As always, I enjoy our weekly Monday support groups. We had some new members this week, and that always warms my heart. I love seeing how our community embraces new faces, offering kindness, empathy, and solidarity. One new member shared a beautiful reflection that moved me deeply: she expressed how grateful she was for finding the support group, as without it, she believed she would have been in a much darker place. She described still being in what she called the "Eeyore phase," feeling de…

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Creating a Herpes-Friendly Diet: Foods to Eat and Avoid

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Optimizing Your Nutrition for Better Outbreak Management

Diet plays a crucial role in managing herpes outbreaks. Certain foods can trigger outbreaks, while others can help reduce their frequency and severity. By making mindful dietary choices, you can support your immune system and improve your overall health. In this post, we'll explore the foods to eat and avoid for a herpes-friendly diet.

One of the most important dietary considerations for managing herpes is the balance between lysine and …

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Managing Herpes: What to Expect After a Diagnosis and How to Cope with Outbreaks

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As you all know, I love our Monday support group calls. We had some new faces this week, and it was, of course, wonderful to welcome new people. I also love seeing the members who have been coming for years. We are all united by one thing—a microscopic virus. We are all here to learn, understand, and heal from our diagnosis. So, with that being said, let's talk a bit about being newly diagnosed since we had some new members this week.

I received some questions about what types of symptoms to …

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Navigating the Emotional Waves of Herpes: Lessons from Our Community Support Call

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This week’s support group call felt like a family reunion. We dove deep into conversations that stirred up some heavy emotions, especially around getting that first outbreak or experiencing one after a long period of dormancy. Herpes can bring up so many thoughts and feelings, and it’s important that we address them head-on, just like we did during the call.

One of the most profound questions raised was, "Do you ever have that moment when you think, 'I have herpes,' and feel down about it? What…

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Brain-Based Wellness: Training Your Nervous System to Combat Herpes

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Leveraging Neuroscience to Manage Stress and Reduce Outbreaks

Stress is a significant trigger for herpes outbreaks, and managing stress effectively is crucial for reducing the frequency and severity of these outbreaks. One innovative approach to stress management is brain-based wellness, which focuses on training your nervous system to respond more effectively to stress. In this post, we'll explore how brain-based wellness can help you combat herpes by reducing stress and improving overall heal…

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Understanding Herpes Triggers and How to Avoid Them

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Identifying and Managing Factors That Cause Outbreaks

Understanding what triggers herpes outbreaks is essential for managing the condition effectively. By identifying and avoiding these triggers, you can reduce the frequency and severity of outbreaks, leading to a more comfortable and fulfilling life. In this post, we’ll explore common herpes triggers and provide strategies for managing them.

Stress is one of the most common triggers for herpes outbreaks. When you’re stressed, your body releas…

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Why We Reject Our Partners First: A Deep Dive into Self-Worth and Herpes

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This week on our support group call, we welcomed new members—yay! For those of you who have been with me for a while, you all know how much I love having new members in our community. What I find so important about our Secret Society is that we are made up of people from all over the world: different ages, religions, cultures, and backgrounds. In many cases, if we were put in a room, we may never have struck up a conversation, but because we’re united by one microscopic virus, we’ve come t…

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Navigating Relationships with Herpes: From Dating to Long-Term Love

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How to Maintain Healthy and Honest Relationships



Navigating relationships with herpes can be challenging, but it's entirely possible to have fulfilling, loving connections whether you're dating casually or in a long-term relationship. Open communication, honesty, and understanding are key to maintaining healthy relationships while managing herpes. In this post, we'll explore how to approach dating, disclose your status to a partner, and maintain a strong relationship despite the challenges th…

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